What a Weekend

Saturday I went to a baby shower for a friend I haven't seen since high school. She is an ER doctor now. So is her husband. Instead of playing "silly shower games" (which I happen to really enjoy) we went around the room telling about ourselves. Four out of the six introductions before me were nurses. Another employed at the university. Then it came to me. It has never bothered me that I didn't finish college. I had my kids instead. And I wouldn't trade it for anything. But at that moment, I felt a little out of place. So this was my introduction...."I'm Christie, I do not work in the ER, but I visit there often. I have six kids." I then proceeded to ask the doctor for a punch pass...visit 10 times, get the next one free....too bad, it was a good idea. I had a great time at the shower visiting and listening to everyone give the expectant mother little tidbits of advice. As she opened the gifts of tiny outfits and baby necessities, I couldn't help but get a little sentimental.

After the shower was the Relief Society broadcast. I wasn't sure if I even wanted to go at first. The weather gave me a migraine and I almost didn't go. As always, I am sure glad I did. It was a very good session as it was filled with confirmations that what I am doing is the most important thing I can do. I especially liked Sister Thompson's talk about families. Even though she has never married or had kids, like Sheri Dew, she has a unique perspective on the subject. Thinking of all this, I am reminded of a quote by UCLA's basketball coach, John Wooden. "You make a living by what you get. You make a life by what you give." My friends have great jobs and do a lot of good for people. I am very grateful for good doctors, nurses, and teachers to name a few. But my role as 'mom' is the best job there is. Even though at times I may feel overwhelmed or under qualified, I know there is nothing more important I could be doing.

Sunday was our ward's primary program. It was fabulous! Every one of them sang their heart out, and they each had a speaking part. They did a great job! Hailey had a long poem to quote, and Tyler sang and recited his part in the microphone (that is HUGE for him!) Hannah knew all the songs and Casey behaved very well for being the oldest kid in the primary (at this point, he thinks it is so childish) I was so proud of each of them. Nathan can't wait to be on stage next year!